How Well Do You Know Your Partner?
See how well you know your partner with a 10-question pass-the-phone game. One person answers about themselves, the other guesses, and you compare the little things you noticed.
You answer. They guess.
Ten questions about the everyday you. Player 1 picks privately, then hands over the phone. Reload this page to clear your answers.
Player 2: look away while the first person answers.
How to play
- 01
Player 1 chooses ten answers about themselves. Pick what fits today, or swap a question that doesn't fit.
- 02
Hand over the phone at the pause screen. Player 2 guesses without seeing the first set of answers.
- 03
Compare your matches and talk through the misses. Try a new set with your roles switched, or print the full list for a paper version.
All 84 questions, by mood
Browse at your own pace. Read one out loud, or print the list for an evening without a screen.
Everyday trivia about me
Small preferences you might pick up just by spending an afternoon together.
- What's my biggest pet peeve?Being interrupted · People running late · Loud chewing · A mess left behind
- What did I want to be when I was a kid?A teacher · A doctor · A performer · An astronaut
- What kind of concert did I go to first?A pop concert · A rock show · A country concert · I haven't been to one
- What subject did I enjoy most in school?English · Science · Art · History
- What's my favorite season?Spring · Summer · Fall · Winter
- Which pet would I most like to have?A dog · A cat · A small pet · I'd rather not have one
- Which fear bothers me most?Heights · Spiders · Flying · Public speaking
- What kind of job would I try if I could start over?Something creative · Working outdoors · Helping people · Running my own business
- What am I most proud of?My work · A skill I've learned · Getting through a hard time · Being there for someone
- Who was I closest to growing up?A parent · A sibling or cousin · A grandparent · A friend
- How did I spend most afternoons as a kid?Playing outside · Reading or drawing · Playing video games · At clubs or practice
- What's my favorite kind of birthday celebration?A big party · Dinner with a few people · A day trip · A quiet day at home
- With everyone safe, what would I grab first if there were a fire?Family photos · A box of letters · An inherited piece of jewelry · A childhood keepsake
- Which compliment means the most to me?You're thoughtful · You're funny · You're talented · I can count on you
Food, drinks and the last bite
Think about orders, snacks and the choices made while staring into the fridge.
- What's my favorite takeout dinner?Pizza · Tacos · Sushi · Curry
- Which sweet treat would I pick first?Brownies · Ice cream · Cheesecake · Doughnuts
- What's my usual morning drink?Coffee · Tea · Juice · Water
- What's my ideal weekend breakfast?Pancakes · Eggs and toast · A breakfast sandwich · Yogurt and fruit
- Which pizza topping would I choose?Pepperoni · Mushrooms · Pineapple · Just cheese
- What's my favorite ice cream flavor?Chocolate · Vanilla · Mint chip · Strawberry
- What do I reach for during a movie?Popcorn · Chocolate · Chips · Gummy candy
- How spicy do I like my food?Mild · A little heat · Pretty spicy · As hot as it gets
- Which cuisine do I suggest most often?Italian · Mexican · Thai · Japanese
- What food do I avoid?Mushrooms · Olives · Seafood · Nothing on this list
- What do I cook when I want something easy?Pasta · Stir-fry · Eggs · A sandwich
- What do I want when I'm feeling under the weather?Soup · Toast · Rice or noodles · Whatever you bring me
- What would I choose from a bakery?A croissant · A cinnamon roll · A muffin · A cookie
- Which matters most when I pick a restaurant?The menu · The price · The atmosphere · A recommendation
Little habits you might have noticed
The answers are in the ordinary moments, not a secret test you were meant to study for.
- What's the first thing I do most mornings?Hit snooze · Check my phone · Make a drink · Head for the shower
- How many alarms do I usually set?One · Two · Three or more · I wake up without one
- When do I have the most energy?Early morning · Late morning · Afternoon · Late at night
- Which side of the bed do I choose?Nearest the door · Nearest the window · Whichever you don't want · I switch sides
- How do I sleep best?In total silence · With a fan running · With music or a podcast · With the TV on
- What am I always looking for?My keys · My phone · My glasses · Something I just put down
- How do I usually get ready to go out?Well ahead of time · At the last minute · With a playlist on · While asking what you're wearing
- What do I do when I'm nervous?Talk more · Go quiet · Fidget · Make jokes
- How early do I like to arrive?At least fifteen minutes early · A few minutes early · Right on time · I tend to run late
- What do I usually do before bed?Read · Scroll on my phone · Watch a show · Talk with you
- How do I tackle household chores?A little every day · One big cleaning session · When something bothers me · With a list and a plan
- What do I do with a new message from you?Reply right away · Read it and reply later · Send a voice note · Call if I can
- What happens when I find a song I love?I play it on repeat · I add it to a playlist · I send it to you · I learn the words
- How do I pack for a trip?With a detailed list · The night before · At the last minute · With room for every possibility
Couples trivia: things about us
Choose the answer that fits your memory. If you remember it differently, that is a conversation for afterward.
- Where did we first meet?Through friends · At work or school · On an app or online · While out somewhere
- Who made the first move between us?I did · You did · We both did · A friend helped us along
- What did we do on our first date?Had coffee or drinks · Went out to eat · Took a walk · Did an activity together
- What did I notice about you first?Your smile · Your voice · Your sense of humor · Your style
- How did I feel before our first date?Excited · Nervous · Pretty relaxed · Curious but unsure
- Where did our first kiss happen?Outside after a date · At one of our homes · In a car · Somewhere else
- What did we do on our first trip together?Explored a city · Relaxed by the water · Spent time outdoors · Visited friends or family
- Which early date would I choose to repeat?Our first one · A meal we loved · A day outdoors · A cozy night in
- What made me want a second date with you?The conversation · How much we laughed · The attraction · How comfortable I felt
- Who did I tell about you first?My best friend · A sibling · A parent · A coworker
- What was our first meal together like?We went to a restaurant · We grabbed takeout · We cooked · We shared snacks
- What kind of gift did I first give you?Something to eat or drink · Something to wear or use · Tickets or an outing · Something I made
- Which photo of us would I choose to print?An early date · A vacation · A celebration · An ordinary day together
- What do I miss most about when we started dating?The long conversations · Getting dressed up · The nervous excitement · Finding out new things about you
Questions about us: how we do things
No one is keeping score of the chores. This is about knowing each other.
- Which way of showing love matters most to me?Affection and touch · Time together · Help with everyday things · Kind words or thoughtful gifts
- What do I want most after a bad day?A hug · Someone to listen · A distraction · Some time alone
- What's my ideal date night with you?Dinner out · A movie at home · Live music · Trying something new
- How do I like to keep in touch when we're apart?Little texts all day · One long call · Voice messages · Photos of our day
- How do I like to celebrate our anniversary?A nice dinner · A weekend away · A thoughtful gift · A quiet evening together
- What kind of surprise from you do I love most?A planned date · My favorite food · A handwritten note · Help with a chore
- When we disagree, what do I usually need first?Time to think · To talk it through · A little reassurance · A short walk
- What's my favorite way to spend a Sunday with you?Sleep in together · Go out for brunch · Get outdoors · Catch up on shows
- Which household chore do I most want to trade?Washing dishes · Doing laundry · Cleaning the bathroom · Taking out the trash
- How do I feel about showing affection in public?I love it · Holding hands is enough · It depends where we are · I prefer to keep it private
- What's my favorite way to say goodnight?A kiss · A hug · A little conversation · A sweet text if we're apart
- How do I like us to choose a movie?Take turns · Pick from a short list · Go with your choice · Rewatch a favorite
- Which activity makes me feel closest to you?Talking without distractions · Cooking together · Going for a walk · Cuddling
- What would I like us to make more time for?Dates · Travel · Quiet evenings · Seeing friends together
Off the clock
How well do you know the version of your partner with no meeting to get to?
- Which trip would I most like to take?See Japan · Visit Italy · Explore New Zealand · Relax in the Caribbean
- Which comfort movie would I put on first?The Princess Bride · Shrek · Legally Blonde · The Lord of the Rings
- What would be my go-to karaoke song from this list?Dancing Queen · Don't Stop Believin' · I Wanna Dance with Somebody · Mr. Brightside
- What's my favorite kind of vacation?A beach break · A city trip · A hiking trip · A road trip
- What do I love doing in my spare time?Reading · Playing games · Making things · Playing sports
- What kind of live show would I choose?A concert · A comedy show · A play or musical · A sports game
- Where would I spend a surprise day off?At home · Outdoors · With friends · Somewhere new with you
- What kind of TV show do I watch most?Comedy · Drama · Reality TV · Documentaries
- What do I most enjoy reading?Novels · True stories · Practical guides · Articles and short pieces
- What would I want to learn for fun?A language · An instrument · A sport · A craft
- How do I feel about camping?I love it · One night is enough · Only with a proper bed · I'd rather stay in a hotel
- What's my favorite way to get moving?Walking or hiking · Going to the gym · Dancing · Playing a sport
- What would I do with an unexpected extra paycheck?Save it · Book a trip · Buy something I've wanted · Treat us to a day out
- Where would I most like to live someday?A big city · A small town · By the water · In the countryside
A few things you might be wondering
How is the match score worked out?
Each matching answer earns one point out of ten. The percentage just describes this round. It is not a compatibility score, and remembering a detail differently doesn't say whether a relationship is good or bad.
What if none of the choices fits me?
Player 1 can swap that question for another before finishing their turn. If two choices fit, pick the one that sounds most like you today. You can explain the other one after the guesses.
Can we play without sharing a phone?
Yes. Use the full question list below and write your answers separately on paper. One person answers about themselves and the other predicts those answers, then compare them together.
Are these couples trivia questions or factual trivia?
They're trivia about you two: everyday preferences, little habits and shared memories. You don't need to know celebrity facts or remember an exact anniversary date to play.
Where do our answers go?
The game keeps them only in this open page. It does not send the answers to our servers or save them in browser storage. Reloading the page or starting another round clears the current answers.
Made for a conversation
Written by our team for everyday moments together. These prompts are not a checklist for your relationship. Take what fits and leave the rest.
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